Gina Milani
Gina Milani

You are very inspiring! Love your channel, Lets become youtube friends

Vor year
Hannah Taylor
Hannah Taylor

PLEASE do a video on why I'm so possessive of my man. He's literally perfect (my dad likes him, he's in the military) but Im going to lose him soon if I dont do something. He's the love of my life please help :(

Vor year
Janelle Chesnutt
Janelle Chesnutt

Dear Matthew, Can you make a video on how to deal with family members/mothers of men that we date and how to handle negativity from them that causes issues in our relationship? I have dated a few guy where the mother was the cause of the end of a relationship.

Vor year
So So
So So

does anyone remember the title of Matt's video in which he talks about transition? I can't find it :'(

Vor year
Sky Welch
Sky Welch

I love your videos and am working up to buying your book. I have been hesitant to try them, but I did with one guy. For a while I thought it was working, but he turned out to be the wrong guy to try it on. He flirted with me, and decided to be a bit bold for the first time and flirt back. I would tease him a bit about how handsome he was and he would give me compliments back. Well one day he decided to start ignoring me. He told a friend of mine that he was worried I was going to ask him out. He made a huge deal about it and became rude and aggressive with me when I tried to talk to him. I decided to give up on him. If he was going to act like that then he wasn't good bf material to me. Well he didn't speak to me for two weeks. Then one day I was outside eating and he looked at me and said, "You need to smile sweety." a few things ran through my head in a split second. One was why did he choose to talk to me now? Two was why would he choose to say that after treating me the way he did for two weeks. Three was, what would Matthew Hussey suggest. I remembered one of your videos about texting. When a guy doesn't text you for a really long time and then all of a sudden texts you something as if he hadn't just disappeared off the face of the earth. So I just looked at him and raised my eyebrow. I want to give him the hint that he can't just treat me that way and expect me to flirt back like I used to. He hasn't shown me the respect that I have given him. So why would I act the same? Am I wrong or right? looking for an honest opinion.

Vor year
Andrea Rose
Andrea Rose

Matthew, could you do a video about women that have had serious physical and or sexual abuse in their past and how to allow yourself to trust and feel confident enough to let a man love you? This is my first public comment, so I'm not really sure how this works. I don't know if I will get notifications for responses to this posting or if I need to come back and check the discussion board frequently. The reason that I'm asking you to make a video on this subject is that I went through almost 8 years of sexual abuse as a child and then a couple years as a young adult. On top of that I was married to a man that was horribly physically abusive for almost 6 years. The day I left was the day I had decided, ENOUGH IS ENOUGH! I (at the time, they're of course older now) had two daughters ages 4 & 6. They walked in after my ex husband was hurting me and saw blood all over Mommy's face, neck, shoulders and chest. For the first time in my life I stood up for myself and left. I didn't want my daughters to grow up seeing any more of that. I didn't want them to grow up thinking that is how a man is supposed to treat his woman. It's been years since I left him and since I've dealt with any "other" form of abuse. My problems now are seeing true value in myself. Don't get me wrong, there are things I am very confident about but in the back of my mind I have this fear that I won't be enough for a good man. The WONDERFUL man I have been dating has been so supportive, kind, patient and understanding. But Matthew, I don't want to allow my insecurities and fears due to the years of put downs, criticism, sexual and physical abuse to consume my mind so much that I can't give or receive true happiness. I'm not sure if this is a topic that you would have experience with or that you would talk about in your videos, but I have really enjoyed and learned from quite a few of your videos so I thought, what the hell!?! It can't hurt to ask right? "K", the man I'm dating says that with all I have endured, that he can't believe how positive I am. He doesn't understand how I can still believe in any man or real love. But I do. I know there are a lot of assholes out there, but that doesn't mean that all men are that way. So, since your videos are truly a blessing, I wanted to take the chance and ask if you had any advice or would maybe do a video to help women like me know how to communicate our thoughts, worries and anything else we feel to our man without him feeling pity on us or looking at women like me like we are damaged goods. But instead, how to communicate our feelings in a way that shows we still have hope and we are trying to get better, for ourselves and for the people we care about. I apologize for the length of this post, but in order for you to understand what I'm really asking for advice on for me and other women that feel the same and have been through similar situations and feelings, I felt that I should give a sense of where these feelings and fears are coming from and the desires of wanting to do/be better. Can you help?

Vor year
Agnes B
Agnes B

I wonder how many women tried to used Matt's tips on him?!?! And how effective were they? hahahaha Really enjoying the videos (the scuba dive bit was when you got me!). Keep it up! :)

Vor year
Justine_ XO
Justine_ XO

*****REAL QUESTION***** I met a guy, that i feel is one that only comes once in a lifetime. The only thing that has me iffy on not giving into a relationship in the future, is that he has a child, and another one on the way. I REALLY care for him, and will appreciate any feedback given to me. Please let me know your thoughts on the situation, id love to hear the advice :) <3

Vor year
mssomebee
mssomebee

Please, make a video on what to do when a SO is really under a lot of stress/family issues and pulls away. My SO did that, he asked me to be patient and texts me everyday but its been 6 weeks and he texts less and less and see each other every week or so. I don't know if I should be more patient so he'll see me as a source of support when he's finally ready or to tell him that I feel blah blah blah and I need a deadline. I tend to come way too forward.

Vor year
European
European

Hello Matthew. Thank you for all your videos! They’re very interesting and I hope to put them to good use someday. However, do you have any videos about falling in love? I just turned 25 and have never been in love before. The closest I have been is liking someone, once, back in high school. But I broke it off because after 6 months my feelings had not progressed. I’m not looking for “the one” and am not ready to get married any time soon. But I do want a meaningful relationship, not a drunken hook-up. My non-existent love-life never bother me before. I always assumed that somewhere along the road I’d just meet someone. However, lately I have been feeling very lonely and insecure and it has started to affect other areas of my life. Since I’ve started my master’s program, I haven’t been able to make any close friends. All the guys I meet are immature and alcohol-centric. With the girls I dread the ever pending “love-life” discussion which is the main “bonding factors” among girls. I’m embarrassed not to have anything to share. Not wanting to be judged I usually end up lying or being very vague in my answers. The worst part is that at the end of the day, before falling asleep, it is all I can think about and it makes me miserable. So, I’ve been taking steps to do something about it. I’ve enrolled in tennis classes but the people I meet there have children my age. I considered joining a student association, but there were none that interested me (two did, and they organise events to which I’d been added to the mailing-list. To this day I have not heard back from them). I will be attending badminton sessions starting next week (I suspects mostly girls attend, but with some luck I could meet some people through them). I have attended day trips to different sites in France, but I mainly met retired men and women on these trips. I cannot seem to find an activity to share with people of my own age group (that does not involve getting stone drunk or staying up until an ungodly hour). The fact that I live far away from everything doesn’t help my situation. It takes me over an hour to get to my university and about one hour and a half to get to Paris. So just dropping by somewhere for an hour or so is very inconvenient for me. I guess my main problem is that I don’t have (and never have had) a “target” to use all your techniques on and I’d like to know if there is anything else I can do to find one. I am tired of waiting and my attempts at widening my circle if proving fruitless. Do you perhaps have a video on how to fall in love? If not, could you please make one (if possible)? There might be other people in my situation who would benefit from this information as well. In any case I’d be very grateful if you could give me some advice!

Vor year
Chasing fireflys
Chasing fireflys

I'm not interested in being in a relationship. but I miss having a friend. There is one guy in particular who I really like, he makes me laugh. and I like being around him. why is it so impossible to have a male friend. I don't even have time to think if I'm interested or not. I feel so pressured, that it makes me want out. why is there always such a rush. If things could be taking slow, then maybe I would be interested. I'm up front, I say I just want to be friends, they agree, and then they call me everyday. and then I feel like I can't breath. and I just want to break away. and its sad. because I loose out too. I loose out on the friendship and a possible relationship. and I wish I could get advise on that.

Vor year
Yuki Honda
Yuki Honda

my boyfriend is paying more attention to my best friend. He never talks to me and he always talks to my best friend. I have told him she likes him before and he should tell her how he feels about her(he thinks shes annoying)(at least that's what he told me) Just today he sat next to her and completely ignored me. He always tries to make her laugh. Please help me i don't know what to do anymore.

Vor year
AlexakaMilky
AlexakaMilky

this is my first ever comment on youtube oddly enough lol so I'm a little nervous. It seems to be easier to face some of the deadly animal we have down under than it is to do this but hey when in Rome. I stubbled upon your videos one day about a month ago, I wasn't too sure what I was looking for typing in or asking youtube on advice about guys but I thought F it what have I got to loose. And I don't understand how the British accent sounds Aussie either and thats out of the mouth of one, but I guess we do have the same town names example I live in Newcastle. I have seen your videos on loneliness and can relate in not just the romance/ relationship aspects of my life and how my actions or how I react to that loneliness feeling effects not just those relationships but how it hinders future ones. I am the girl who seems to the one guys choose something i.e. weed basically a plant or someone over, be it we have been dating a few weeks or months to the full blown relationship etc. I do have standards and don't put up with bs actions or words as I have been through far too much and lost so much because of illness and a massive accident, I have fought hard to be the person I am at this moment physically and well its always a continuous fight mentally but yet I feel like there has to be something wrong with me? As I know I am a strong, young attractive qualities okay I'm a bit of a dork and weird, my favourite movie is predator which is odd for a girl but I own it lol Im not looking for a relationship but I am open to one yet it feels no-one feels the same in return, if that makes sense?

Vor year
Graham Wintzer
Graham Wintzer

Just curious if you do anything for men, and how to get the girl. Not talking about player status, but to actually have a meaningful relationship with a woman. There was something on your website for men, but doesn't seem to be working.

Vor year
Random Realistic Tone
Random Realistic Tone

Just my opinion. You do not have to be a snowflake and ignore your needs, that's not the point. There are plenty of ways to satisfy your needs without sleeping around. There is a difference between sex and intimacy. Sex is self gratification. Intimacy is a gift you share. You are allowing that person into your being, the two intertwine and become one, sharing themselves body and soul. The whole experience is beautiful. I find sex to be a selfish and self-centered act. It no longer becomes that special gift to share, it now is about what I want and the satisfaction of my needs. And of course there are the health risks and social stigma. I know for me I prefer to respect my body and share myself with someone special. Sleeping around to satisfy your needs or to "educate" yourself while you are single might result in your being single for a lot longer than you want. Most guys don't view promiscuous women as someone they want to bring home to the family or someone they can trust to not cheat on them. Something to think about.

Vor year
greg parish
greg parish

hay i have a female that just want to be friends i am a male we are going to dinner as friends i like her more then that but she dose not.i made some bad choices and so did she so i decided along the way so I made a test for both of us for likes and dislikes and i all so put a warning on the bottom of the page i think this is a very good way to get are self more in the friend zone which i am good with i dont want to lose her i put on are test the following Q; Name qualities/ needs /wants /dislikes/ and and what you do like about that person and thoughts about that person and what they need to work on in this Friendship only. do you think this is a great way to get to know my friend? oh and i forgot she has some what guy qualities which i love!!!

Vor year
Kennedy Eberle
Kennedy Eberle

I am in my freshman year of high school and have liked this guy for almost a year. Just recently he told me that he likes me too as well as my friend Cali who is a lot like me in looks but completely different in personality. I have begun to notice that he is giving more and more of his attention to Cali and less and less to me. Do you think there is a way for me to bring his attention back to me or have i lost him?

Vor year
EnigmaDawn
EnigmaDawn

You got anything on dating a guy for almost ten years only for him to take his own life, fecking your trust of men, fecking your sobriety and leaving you broken and single for another six years. For you to try dating again only to realize dating has gone and completely changed since the early 2000's (the last time ya did it) and its not even the same animal anymore. The videos help but i am still a blind woman groping in the dark for a cloak made of shadows. (Also I have ya 9 txt's, your get the guy book and even ya brothers breakdown on ya mastered puppetry shown on the radio of making conversations go the way you needed them. (Thanks))

Vor year
Yvette Costa
Yvette Costa

have you made any videos on why a man would want to pay for everything? Or ask to be integrated into the family and we've just met.

Vor year
Ana Pao
Ana Pao

Mattew I need your help, I am dating a guy who is always saying how good hearted and nice person I am, he always says he cares about me, that he appreciates me, and he is always for me. But is really strange to hear him say "I like you" or I "like how you look tonight". Maybe I'm making such a big drama because there are all these other guys telling me all the time how beautiful I am and my eyes are nice.. etc.. etc... and I barely hear it from this guy. I don't feel I am an attractive person for him. What do I say or how do I do to know if he likes me?

Vor year
BIN2 Myth-Bin
BIN2 Myth-Bin

What would you say to a Transgender FtM who still wants to get the Guy & be both dominate and sensitive with the relationship. However, the FtM is putting energy into the idea that if the Ftm cannot dominate in bed first then there is no point in the relationship even when no relationship had even started. Or if the Guy is even interested in that. Any advice?

Vor year
Mara DragonRider
Mara DragonRider

Alright Matthew. I need some advice. My relationship with my bf is a bit backwards. No offence, but Instead of the "stereotypical" relationship where the guy messes up, I keep messing up because I am a noob at this. This is my second mess up, and I dont know how to diffuse this even though the more honest and humble I am being, the worse it gets. HELP ME PLZ ;-;

Vor year
RedCapitalist
RedCapitalist

Your advice sucks dick. The only thing leading about it is that it's the pinnacle of the Western cuck paradigm. Relationships are never equal and they never should be. Western laws are totally screwed up and only serve to screw men over - which in turn has produced cucks like you - which in turn is leading to the rapid decline of Western civilization

Vor year
heehee mefunny
heehee mefunny

Yet here you are, reaching out to him. From the number of "cucks" and the key words in your post here, I think it's easy enough to psychoanalyse you and get a sense of what your inner life is like and the kind of stuff that you are into. If you're here, because a secret part of you wants to have your heart softened... well, I kiss that little tiny part of your heart, and may that warm and fuzzy feeling spread so you feel a little peace and comfort. <3

Vor year
Allison French
Allison French

I was wondering if you had any advice for me and other individuals who have run into this issue: I met this guy online, everything was going well, he would call to chat and ask me to come over to hang out--nothing more. One day, however, I let slip that, at that time, I was still a virgin. Right then and there he lost any and all interest in me, he was kind enough to tell me that he didn't feel right being the one to take it and it should be with someone special, but it was still frustrating. Should I have lied to keep the relationship going? Or was there another way I could have phrased it without letting the cat out of the bag?

Vor year
heehee mefunny
heehee mefunny

If you're open to advice from a random youtube commentor - I don't think you did anything wrong, and it's best to be honest. Perhaps he felt an overwhelm by this, or it's just very honest that he is looking for an experienced partner. He is clear on his needs, nothing wrong with that. And best advice is to be clear on your needs and wants, and let that guide your relationship choices. You'd want a partner totally up for going with you on that journey, and there are many men who have no problem with that. Find one of them.

Vor year
heehee mefunny
heehee mefunny

I this he has a couple videos on virginity or even no sex before marriage - storeapp.science/v-video-DvRG8SGM5mk.html&t=1s

Vor year
Tsuibi
Tsuibi

Would be intrigued to see his take on how men should go about engaging with women, as opposed to advice for women with men.

Vor year
Prerna Dass
Prerna Dass

Hey Matthew I watched one of your videos about being more easy and approachable to men. I have a huge crush on a guy and it started when I started noticing him looking at me with special affection. I started responding and we became very good friends. Unfortunately, for a month I had to stay away from work. However, I kept sending him emails, to which he did not respond that well. Now I am back and he has started looking at me again and I have seen him staring at me.I am not sure why is he not making a move. He stares at me to an extent where other people take a notice of that too which is kinda funny. I have been friendly and I have been approachable but it is not going anywhere. It has kinda irritated me and I have started to avoid him.But I am so hung up on him and cannot stop thinking about him. I am afraid to make a move because I am scared. Please help me.

Vor year
Ana Guido y spano
Ana Guido y spano

Hello from Argentina! Matthew, I'm a huge fan of your videos. I've read a lot about relationships but so far nothing has been so clear and enjoyable as your speeches. And I've a lot of girlfriends that need this information so much. Here we are struggling with the same issues, but they don't speak English so It's difficult to be your apostle and I would like to spread your holy words. Spanish speakers girls need your wisdom too...

Vor year
Erza Scarlet
Erza Scarlet

a teen/young adult addition would be greatly appreciated 😊😊

Vor year
Sarah Smith
Sarah Smith

Hey Matthew! My friends and I love your channel and would LOVE to see a video about COMPROMISE! How much is too much? How do you know when you have a found the right balance in a relationship? It's hard to know when to stand your ground about certain things and when to meet someone half-way. Thanks! Sarah

Vor year
Marie
Marie

I'm 50 years old and just started back into the dating world after divorcing 3 years ago (happily!). I just wanted to tell you that every single one of the text tips and simple phrases that you have given ABSOLUTELY work. I used 2 of them in the last 24 hours and got the results you have spoken of. I will now be binge watching all of your videos. THANK YOU for what you do for women.

Vor year
gigi monroe
gigi monroe

Love your videos! Can you do one on Kissing? Best ways to initiate or signs you can give to a guy that you want them to kiss you...or how to tell if a guy wants to kiss you? I guess I just have a hard time telling when it would be appropriate or if the timing is right? Maybe there are ways to make the timing right? IDK But I would love a video on this topic and am curious about your take on it.

Vor year
Alexander alexe
Alexander alexe

make videos for us !!!! plese ,,, give advice for the men ,,, i like y videos , but ,is not help !

Vor year
Erin Maree
Erin Maree

Has anyone here tried his program get your ex back fast? I would like reviews from you guys, please? <3

Vor year
Tasha Feng
Tasha Feng

Hey Matt, what do you think of people who claim to be asexual, and their hopes for a romantic relationship nonetheless?

Vor year
Jill White
Jill White

hey Matt I know you done a few videos on non-dating life (developing self) I was wondering if you plan to do anymore of those. Really enjoy your videos and podcast. :)

Vor year
Ta Chang
Ta Chang

I would love to see more content on what a man needs to do to get the girl and keep the girl. This way, we can share those videos and potentially the message will get to men around the world. Therefore, allowing the culture of dating to be a little easier to navigate between both men and women. The above wish comes from the below complaint. I"m pretty overwhelmed with the constant message of "women, you need to be like this and like that to get the guy." But who is there to say, "men, you need to be like this and like that to get the girl. Oh and this is how you can keep her!" Don't get me wrong, I LOVE your content and feel that you have said everything that I have ever said or wanted to tell myself. Keep sharing the knowledge, we want and need it.

Vor year
sassydiva
sassydiva

I need advise. ive been in a relationship for almost six months now, but weve hit a rough patch and have been arguing, he been thinking about breaking up but up intil recently he kissed me and i dont know what on earth is going on now. help??

Vor year
Diane Brennan
Diane Brennan

Hi MatthewI really enjoyed the video about advice for dating at any age. Being in my 4os, some of the videos posted seem a bit too young for me as far as the free time I have avail. It was nice to get some advise about incorporating my own desires and hobbies into a possibility for meeting people. I too work full time, and have a teenage son, and family to care for. And it does feel that it is either one or the other, so of course, I chose my family and shy away from dating just for the sake of it because it takes me away from doing the things I want to. I would really love more videos geared towards women in my stage of life. Keep up the great work!!! You really can change lives and help so much. :)

Vor year
Platinum
Platinum

you make such lovely videos. you're likeCarrie Bradshaw in the male version. I'll try some of your tips ..and be right back with some feedback ;)

Vor year
Bery Nice
Bery Nice

how do you know when your not ready for a relationship?

Vor year
Samantha Rix
Samantha Rix

Hey Mr! It's about time we met don't you think! I know a lovely place that I reckon you'd love. Call me x x :)

Vor year
Essence Clayton
Essence Clayton

Hi Mathew, I'm really interested an getting to know this guy, I even told him I was interested in him and wanted to get know him, and he said I don't have time for that sorry:/ What should I do?

Vor year
walking potato1200
walking potato1200

no he isn't SEXIST [sarcasm]

Vor year
Grace
Grace

This is just cringey af this shit doesnt work XD

Vor year
Juliana Ritomi Tokura
Juliana Ritomi Tokura

"He Doesn’t Value You? The ONLY Way He’ll Ever Change (Matthew Hussey, Get The Guy)" I just want to say thank you for talking about this so subtly. This subject, in particular, is very hard to many women and also men that I really care about, especially because of its increasing in a dangerous scale. I didn't know you and your work until last week, some friend posts a video and I start to research it. I've been watching your videos and it's been helpful for my research in a positive and negative way, and for that, I'd like to thank you again. Your work, obviously is very important, especially in the 21st Century when it comes to dating, relationship, toxic people and I appreciate that because more and more we're losing our way to each other, as couples and even as humans. “Questioning the ostensibly unquestionable premises of our way of life is arguably the most urgent of services we owe our fellow humans and ourselves. ” ― Zygmunt Bauman

Vor year
Monique Terblanche
Monique Terblanche

wish I had this guy on speed dial! just got out of a long term relationship a few months ago and I feel like I'm ready to meet new guys however I feel like I have lost my game completely. Got some great tips, now just to sum up the courage and confidence to do what I've learned from Matthew. Really hope that I get it right...wish me luck

Vor year
TexasGirly1979
TexasGirly1979

:)

Vor year
betafishmouse
betafishmouse

fuck your stupid non-skip-able adds. I'M A MARRIED LADY WHO DOESN'T NEED YOUR SHITTY ADVICE. Get off my youtube.

Vor year
coralivy
coralivy

can u like not put your ads everywhere thanks

Vor year
Sarah Somayah
Sarah Somayah

Dear Matthew; I posted this on my personal Facebook, but it was because of your advice that I gained the confidence to stand up for myself, so I wanted to share it here: [This is a very personal story, but every time I think maybe my experiences can help someone else, I feel like I need to share, for a moment: I'm not very good with relationships. A few weeks ago, I was played by a man on the other side of the planet, who had me wrapped around his finger, had me voluntarily fly over, only to realise that nothing he said about himself personality-wise was true. He was an actor, and a great one at that. I felt hurt, but not necessarily because of him (I mean, good riddance), but because of making myself vulnerable, really liking someone, putting in effort and therefore letting myself be used, only to get nothing in return. I should have left immediately, but I let him get away with everything. And obviously it makes you think: Why? Why did this happen to me, and how can I prevent this from happening in the future? Let me start off by saying that I'm a pretty confident woman nowadays; over the past 7 years I've been able to transform most of my insecurities to, in my opinion, attractive traits. I'm independent, relatively intelligent (I mean let's be reasonable here), I look good, I'm social, outgoing, I have a million interests and I talk to people easily. I'm not afraid to start a conversation or be crazy spontaneous. I don't need someone else's validation to like myself. But not spotting all of the red flags (and in hindsight, there were plenty) is a sign of insecurity. It means you don't value yourself enough to find someone better. That accepting improper treatment is something you think you deserve. Only afterwards did I tell him that he was acting like a self-centered jerk and I wouldn't stand for that, which is when the worst had already happened. So of course he wasn't going to go: "I'm so sorry, I had no idea, forgive me, I really care about you." No, he gave me more lies and excuses, and then got rid of me before I could; just doubled-down on his behavior. Because I wanted to have the last word, I then sent him the kindest goodbye message (confidence is not giving into anger, remember that) and then deleted him everywhere. I'm a person that likes to takes risks. I am also always abroad everywhere, and I do not pursue that 9 to 5 stability (yet), so every man that comes along with the desire to marry and have children kind of scares me. Clearly, I look for a type of relationship that's slightly out of the ordinary (because I am slightly out of the ordinary). But what I want, doesn't seem to be in line with what I see around me. Most of my friends are either moving in together with their partners, talking about house-buying, marriage, potential birth-giving.. So when this man came along, having irregular working hours, being well-traveled, intelligent and having alternative ideas about relationships and marriage, but interested in long-distance dating, I thought I hit the jackpot. How often do you find someone with that mindset? So I took a risk. And I was wrong. I got so overwhelmed by my own excitement that I completely fell for it and accepted all of the negative behavior because of it. Like I mentioned before; it seemed so hard to find someone with a similar mindset, that I settled for the first person to seemingly fit that profile, when in fact he wasn't a good match at all, which eventually crushed my self-confidence. So what did I learn from all of this? (1) Don't settle for less than you deserve. This seems to be a recurring pattern. (2) Don't fall in love too quickly; be more rational. I was willing to ignore all the signs, just because it seemed so perfect. It's easy to give into your emotions. But challenging yourself is much more attractive. (3) Stay confident, even if the signs are positive. Playing hard to get is a very controversial thing nowadays, but there is some truth in it. It means that no matter who comes into your life, you will continue living it regardless. This was a new learning experience. But it doesn't mean I will stop taking risks. It means I will take them with more pride in the future. Or as Zig Ziglar put it: Confidence is going after Moby Dick in a rowboat and taking tartar sauce with you Also a thank you to @Matthew Hussey for teaching me all of the above lessons..].

Vor year
Outright Allie
Outright Allie

Hi Matthew! I just wanted to check in and say thank you! I've always been interested in dating tips, give them to a bunch of people all the time when they ask too, haha. But you know what they say; sometimes you have to follow your own advice. When I watch your videos, I know for a fact that all you're saying is absolutely true. But sometimes, I've neglected to act on it, because well, just being crazy about someone. And maybe you're now expecting me to say; I'm in a relationship with the man of my dreams because of your tips! No. I'm single, and I love it. But there is this one guy I've loved for 7 whole years... Let's say he's the first guy I ever truly loved. But despite the fact that me and him always had great conversations, there was always this thing with him: he would disappear. He would show me some interest, disappear, ignore me, and then come back like nothing happened. I've seen him in relationships with people, but he always said how special I was to him, blabla. Because of your videos, I finally did something I should've done a long time ago: if he doesn't invest, neither will I. Not even to just be his friend. After all these years, I still jumped when he texted, but he was never ever there when I needed him, never responded when I wanted to talk, only checking in every now and then, to see if I'm still there jumping for him (you know, the MPI guy). But I'm done with that now. He may not be a bad guy, I know he's not, but he sure is an MPI guy! So I'm being ruthless, after 7 years, finally. You opened my eyes to what I knew all along. Thank you, Matthew.

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kiu orchid
kiu orchid

Excuse me Matthew Hussy? i want to ask a question, I'm in a long distance with a boy who i truly love so so much and care but, he has depression and i did all i can to help him so much but hes so far away and I don't know what to do and still this day I'm still wondering and worried about him like every day, plz make a video of long distance relationship and dating a depressed boyfriend, what should I do? and how do I get hope and trust that he'll be ok and stop worrying about him all day, I'm really looking forward about your response

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Naruto G
Naruto G

Why are you only helping women and do they really need dating advice? Is there a female equivalent of you, who helps guys?

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Shanna Wilson
Shanna Wilson

Hey, Naruto. MH's advice goes both ways with men and women. Everyone wants to feel valued, appreciated and respected. I think men have to deal with the added level of needing to be masculine, according to social ideals. It boils down to self-respect and being confident with who you are as a person.

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Latisha Gary
Latisha Gary

Hey, this guy I like just told me he sees me as a sister, is it officially a lost cause??

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Patricia büchel
Patricia büchel

hi matthew.so after watching 2 of your videos while thinking about my easy breeze summer crush.i am slightly annoyed that you are telling me what women have to do to please their man.of course ill do it but come on can you add a little more frustration for the grandpa guy??my crush for sure moves at grandpa pace.and its summer after all :)

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Seaward Sushi
Seaward Sushi

id like to know how to respond to passive aggressive texts from your very recent and new ex? Im trying to move past the negativeness between us but he keeps sending very passive aggressive texts im not sure what to reply if at all. how do you direct passive aggressive texts in a more positive direction of communication?

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melisa good boy jein
melisa good boy jein

Hi not soo deip dierMatthev bikoz you kan hert self.i onesli touch mi hart end reaksie is olveis good.sei te evri badi fil not diseimt tich hu te touch hem hart end olweis ken hu end wat mast duing .bikoz feith aer feith not hev cains te ceinjit world.........Wit alle mi haert i kan respekt this thinks bat pipel just aer selfish your Jana💖

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JainaSolo21
JainaSolo21

Hi, Matt. What is the best way to respond to a guy who comes across as very cocky and confident--the type that knows he's good-looking, is used to women falling all over him, and is expecting the same reaction from you. What can you say to show your standards and that you could become interested if a few things changed? Is there a proper way to do this...or would it be better to just run and never look back? BTW, I love your videos--been watching several for a while. You've got an amazing insight. :)

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heehee mefunny
heehee mefunny

I just found your channel this week. You are so lovely. Next level wisdom, Matthew. It makes me want to take a breath and I find myself lulled by the kindness in your voice and your way with words. And it sounds like you have a good team around you that brings the best out of you. Thank you for your authenticity and for putting something clear, energetically clean that inspires people to relax, be more compassionate, understand, and be better. I wish you success mixed with a "keep you on your toes"/expansive journey. <3

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THE DIVA
THE DIVA

hey guys can u plz give your attention am in relation for 5 month and sometimes i want to break up cuz i dn't feel that he is good for me for a lot for reasons and i want to tell u that and give me your opinion i dn't think he love me that much cuz i thought it was jst a like and it's over when we get in realtion maybe he dn't wanna to hurt me bt we have met in high school he is my classmate and we study together so in 13-02-2017 we tell each other our feelings and oh yeah he like me to i was so happy at that time bt now i dn't feel the same our relation is so boring and he never bring to me a present jst i remmember to not be a liar two times he bring chocolate for me and when h's birthday came i've bring to him present that it's a neckless for couples it's means one for me and one for him and he become so happy bt he's never make that step and make me suprised he never hold my hand i remmeber tow or three time he hold me from shoulder or jst stay closer nt like other couple do and even he said i love i want and it's been tow times i told him to leave me and he said nooo why u are doing this i love so much i wanna to stay with u i dn't know if he dn't know how to treath girls cuz he ofently be in relation or stay with girls h's always with his friend and am the only girl that he been so much closer to her from years and the thing that make me wanna live him lats week we were in exams that if we succesed we get to universty he ofently talk to me like we are nt couple for couples stay together and when u see your girlfriend u go to her bt he dn't and what make me sad when i see how it's perfect the relation of my best friend and how he treat her and always when he dn't see her around he go check her and wait her till she came always bring for her present and me am jst passion and try to nt compare my life with the others bt it's enough so plz if u have read what i've written tell me your opinion guys cuz am confiesed and since we finish school and exams we stop talking cuz i desctivate my facebook account and i dn't wanna reactive it till a make a decision

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Peter Shmidt
Peter Shmidt

Matthew please help! I've been dating this guy for a month. He is captain flies fro thomas cook airlines and he is very positive and active but I fear he is too concentrating on himself (self centred). last week he sent me this: "Hi gorgeous. I knew that you were feeling like that and I'm conscious that things are probably moving a little too quickly for me which is why I've taken a step back. I'm nowhere near ready to commit completely. I got a little spooked the other day when you were concerned that something is wrong and now I think there might be. It seems that we are in totally different places emotionally. I'd like to talk about it more when I see you next if that's ok with you. XX" is it break up text? I relied this: (also I was aware of your recommended reply, I really like this guy and don't want to loose him) I know exactly how you feel. I'm not ready to commit either, but I think we are great together and last month with you was amazing. I have never felt this way about any guy before. We can take things slow (as long as I comply with KGB requirements). I would like to see you again and talk things through. XX I thought this was break up text and even though it was very painful for me, I have to say, I have never felt so alive in my hole life! its like I was asleep all these years and could not feel anything at all! (I was married to alcoholic, manipulative bully, with narcissistic personality disorder for 15 years). I'm Russian, he's english, and it was our joke, he seemed to enjoy idea of me being a spy? anyway, I really like this guy but I think he is too much in to himself and it may not work long time, should I sent him your recommended text like "I hope I'll still be here for you when you ready? please, help me! I am not sure if things can be fixed or should I move on with my life? Elena, Birmingham UK

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Iyonna Floyd
Iyonna Floyd

Hello Matthew! I have depression and anxiety. This may be a lot to ask but, do you think you could do a video concerning women with these issues and finding love? Thanks =)

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Jessica Rose
Jessica Rose

Have you thought about doing any videos on how to deal with a finding out you might have fallen in love with a person who turns out has a dangerous personality disorder. How to recognize. How to evaluate. How to leave. Or how to work with it.

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jordan thapaliya
jordan thapaliya

hi matthew dont know if you are online now but would there be anything different to say to a teenage boy sice there is a guy in my year that i really like and i dont know what to say or what to do please help

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thi truong
thi truong

hi , i am Thi , i use this program and i bought it, 79.00 usd. by online Visa. And i said don't use anymore. my visa card don't have money but to day i put money in my card and it automaitc discourt me more 69.90 with said i use another program , i ddin't use and i lose 69.90 usd for nothing to use and i din't put the buttom to pay. i hope people who broken love like me don't use this program and lost money like me . i feel upset , i broken love and it is not mean for people playing this my heart and my money. i have to block my visa card . one more the program is not use full , after they said , that is no a right men for u .

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rebecca robinson
rebecca robinson

why is this advert coming up on childs programme ?????? wrong !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

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Doreen Adabanya
Doreen Adabanya

How long should you wait before you call a guy you met off Tinder?

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Sophie Owen
Sophie Owen

Hi Matthew, I can imagine you have a really busy schedule, so if you find time to reply to this, that would be a lovely bonus :) I've followed your channel for a while now, and I watch clips of your videos often. I have your book, on the side, ready for my next read, and I love your advice and how it makes so much sense. So I love what you do and am thoroughly greatful. But, I wanted to ask you a question. I know you used to help men but now you are out there giving great advice to women. But I wanted to know, why? I'm sure you're aware that the dating world, especially nowadays, is full of different men and women that can cause so much good but also distruction on each other. I have had my fair share of "interesting" dates, stories and experiences to tell along with many other single women. Meaning I have met some real "assholes" out there (as I'm sure men have with women, let's not be sexist here), but I wanted to know what drove you, and still drives you to "be on our side" in order to help us understand mens thoughts, actions and intentions. What is it that you want to achieve or get out of helping us? Not trying to put you on the spot, but genuinly intrigued. Look forward to your reply :) Sophie

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J. Belle Emmanuelle
J. Belle Emmanuelle

Hi Matthew! I'd really like to thank you for your work. And for the ethic you put behind it. You've explained how, your job was mainly to give competency to womens. The same way, we need competence in a job or other things. And I got the idea: Just naming with kindness the things that we see he is doing and we do not like. (in my case: not moving an appointment with a family member for seing each other. Since it's my only free day in two weeks) For doing so, I just saw his point of view: he doesn't move his appointments. Especially with his family and so I told him that I knew he was not going to do that. Because he's like that and that it was ok. (with a smiley) And just doing that made me feel so free, loving and respectful. I reeaally want to thank you. You give advice on how to text back but it turned out I came to understanding him and accept him. Thank you!

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Mahesh Sindbandge
Mahesh Sindbandge

I would really wanna see Matthew making a video on men seeking men (Don't want to use labels here. ).. I wonder if if would help my friends who are amazed at the way he interprets and gives advice on how to date/get men. Like All men are same in general?

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MaríaV v
MaríaV v

I would love a video explaining how to give myself value, without sounds i'm upset, angry... ¿How can i get this Matt?¿ I said him the advice you gave for people who isn't ready for a relationship. And he texted back like.. "Why you text me that?" We talked by WhatsApp but i sugested better a call, he told me ok, today afterwork i will calle you but never happened (We are not living in the same place). What shall i do now?¿ Text him, wait... COMPLETELY LOST

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Wennie Cherry
Wennie Cherry

Hi, Mathew. Ive been watching your videos for two years. I find your advice genuine and useful. Lately I've been caught up in a conflicting situation where I felt indecisive if I should breakup with my boyfriend for eight months. Last week I found out a text message he sent to a female singer he met at a bar a few months ago when we were dating each other exclusively for three months. BACKGROUND: He was 26 and I, 28. We met through work and he's an expat. He's new to my country. He met this attractive female performer at the bar when he's visiting another city with others. He gave her his number. Later, when he return to the hotel room, feeling tipsy. He messaged her: "I'm the guy who couldn't stop looking at you at the bar"......."What do you after your performance. Would like to join me for KTV?"..... What's worse, he also texted me around the same time: "Night hun, I'm going to bed soon". According to the message, they didn't meet up due to the bad timing. He never mentioned this incident to me in which he was planning cheating on me (giving out his number and initiating meeting up with the girl at midnight). Yeah, that happened during the 3rd month of our exclusive dating. After I confronted him with this, he revealed another incident. In the 5th month of our relationship, he went on a cruise. He was hit on by a girl all night at a singing and dancing event. They both felt the chemistry. So she invited him to her room. He's tipsy and followed. According to him, the woman was trying to talk him into bed. Then he told her he's got a gf. But she disrespected that by questioning "Do you think she is the one?" He said at that point he realised he actually doing something wrong, so he left the room. Again, he didn't mention this to me at all. Based upon the two scandals, my conclusion is that he made two huge mistakes: cheating (failed) and lying (hiding is lying). On the bright side it also shows: he was on his way of becoming more committed. My instant reaction was to break up with him immediately and run!!! But I still have feeling for him and he was really sorry about that and wants to make a change. But I'm worried it won't really change that much or for that long, because he's by nature super extroverted and ostentatious. He enjoys attention from women and likes to compliment and amuse women. And he sees no danger in that. We actually had some fights over him giving out number to women at clubs, and being too friendly to women (giving compliments to them in front of me and giving them nicktnames).I really hate those behaviours in a romantic partner. And I don't understand why he doesn't see that. I guess he is just too young and immature. Plus, right before we were dating, he lived a year of crazy life in another country mingling with women. I'm very contradictory now. Honestly, he flirtatious behaviours has caused me to want to break up with him more than once. This time I found no excuse to tolerate. Writing till this point, I feel like my idea has got clearer. I've heard my rational self loud enough. However, I still long for his hugs and kisses. He always makes me laugh effortlessly. And we always have lots of things to talk about. He said he's serious with me and told me he wanted to marry him a while ago. What if Im giving up the right one...... Can his mistakes be forgiven?......

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Sierra Goodson
Sierra Goodson

Hello, so I've looked through a bit of your videos and honestly all over the internet and I'm just really having a difficult time finding good solid advice about what I'm going through. You see, me and my boyfriend are on a "break". We haven't entirely broken up, we've just decided to not be in contact/ not live together, but we haven't exactly given up on us yet. This decision, while being reached by both of us ( I'm the one that suggested the break), is really just for him. We have been dating for four years, we started dating my junior year of high school, his sophmore year, and have gone through alot of changes and growing up together. So when he came to me and explained how he felt, that he "didn't feel passionate anymore" and that he was wondering if "there isn't someone else out there for both of us", I rationally thought, well I'm the only person he has ever been with and it makes sense that he has questions and is wondering about what else is out there, maybe he wants to experience "falling in love" again, or rather wondering if he could, with someone else. So I suggested the break, and we discussed a little bit about how we could date other people during it and just see how he felt at the end of this summer. The problem that I'm having really is that I just don't feel the same way...I'm still madly in love with him, I don't WANT to be with anyone else, much less go on dates with random guys. I worry that I'm making a mistake, that I'm being foolish and naive to think that he'll come back to me. I'm having alot of trouble with this because, all the advice I can find/ that I'm given is really geared more toward an actual break up and, I'm not at that point, we're not at that point, I'm still convinced that he loves me and the way he said things when we last talked ( a week ago before I moved out) made it sound like he still wants a future with me, it just seems as though he's unsure... and I guess I'm just wondering if its the wrong move to wait for someone who isn't absolutely positive that they want me. Sorry this is so long, I wasn't sure the most appropriate way to contact you, thank you for your time and consideration.

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Αγγελική ΞΚ
Αγγελική ΞΚ

Hey there. Could you give a piece of advise on how to approach an older guy?

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MayaLail1
MayaLail1

Are men intimidated be a women who make more money than him? Can that lead to problems during marriage? I feel like it does happen but men don't admit it and then it creates tension.

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Glasnya Rose
Glasnya Rose

What is advice on how to teach men to open the car door, pull chair, etc??

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sallythecamel
sallythecamel

Hello Matthew, I have a question for you, I have notice in my self that I really don't have a problem getting to talk to men in the first stages, like flirting and getting to know a bit a person but I really suck on getting the things deeper and building a meaningful relationship with the guys I like, we turn things either too sexual or too emotional that we ended up in just a friendship (the guys that are now my friends are the ones that I really like) I just don't know how to turn this into a couple relationship and I was feeling frustrated because I really haven't been into a serious relationship yet, just casual stuff or never ending weird friendships, right now I really like a guy but I am afraid he is thinking about me like I am just a friend and I don't want to end up in the same situation... Do you have an advice to change this? Should I stop meeting him? I need to admit I am getting afraid of getting hurt by being just a friend again... :S I love your videos and I am trying to do things differently this time ;-)

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g31n3z3w5k1
g31n3z3w5k1

Looking for his e-mail/contact info. Damn! Another guy making me work to get ahold of him lol j/k. I've been seeing a special guy for the past 9 years and it doesn't get any further than low investment/casualty. I don't know his friends, we don't go out, he comes to my place ect. We spend weeks chatting/calling and he vanishes after filling my head with everything I could ever dream of in terms of us on our once a month date. Then always returns about a month later and this has been going on for the past 9yrs. He fills my head with b.s. and I want it to be real. How do I get him to commit to me? Next time he comes back should I ask where he's been? I don't want to invest more of my energy if he's not but I also want this guy to work out in terms of exclusive relationship with me. When he comes back he's on a self fulfilling mission and has a hard time opening up to me. He says he wants the same thing that I want but his actions are very different. For all I know he could be living with another woman that he treats badly, idk, knock on wood.Your videos are awesome by the way!

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Ella Zare
Ella Zare

I've got a question: I've got this really good friend who I hang out with a lot, and like, but I'm not sure if he likes me back. We like many of the same things and we're both pretty sarcastic around each other. I don't want to ruin the friendship by flirting, but I want to show it subtly. Any suggestions?

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Zoe K
Zoe K

You're full of shit, and shouldn't be allowed to make these kinds of videos...

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kimber higgins
kimber higgins

I like to know how to make guy friends with out the bullshit, they mad cause I don't want to date them. So then they out. Like isn't that how it suppose to start friendship. Answer that question for me Mathew please.

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the1rosa
the1rosa

Can you do a video how to show interest without having to give in on your standards on physical intimacy? I am not talking about the classic: Would you like to come back to my place? I am talking about if a guy tries to kiss you on the first date and you would like to be more committed before doing so. How do you show/tell him your standard, but also show interest?

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Shiam Al Harthy
Shiam Al Harthy

Dear Matthew, I broke up about 4 months ago after he compared me to his ex's because we were arguing. Ever since I was unsure if I have made the right decision. have watched every single video about breakups. I am in that addiction state that I miss him. Not sure if I want him back or not, I messaged him a few months back and all he said: " You're better off without me". And have been really confused about it. May you please help me.

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Yasmeen Alnassir
Yasmeen Alnassir

? is there any way I can contact with you without my identity being exposed I'm Arabic and I really want to explain our way with guys coz it's allot of deferring than you in west, so I really would like to take your advises on our situation

Vor year
Meggie Bolton
Meggie Bolton

Is this kind of where we can request videos? Because for the record, I'd really like some advice (if he has any) on dating with mental illness. Like, when is a god time to share some hard truths? How do you tell someone about it without them running for the hills? How can I be honest with people about my life, when whole years of it have been consumed by this, but still get them to give me a chance, to get to know me now that I'm recovering and am in a better place? So often I just end up holding people at a distance because I don't know how to approach the topic without being a total downer, but I don't want to live in isolation like that anymore. I feel ready to put myself out there again, but terrified at the same time.

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synyster gaitas
synyster gaitas

Does Matthew Hussey have a program for men?

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YesIam
YesIam

<3 watching these videos is like I'm talking with a really good friend... talking, because I feel there is a lot of (internal) dialogue behind the video. It's like Mr Hussey can read my mind and ask himself a question that I would ask him. And respond. Thanks for being a wonderful friend, Matthew!

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April Shaw
April Shaw

I am wanting to see a video on how to spot people with personality disorders. I am currently getting out of a relationship with someone who has recently realized has several personality disorder traits of a covert narcissist and BPD. I kept excusing it away with, oh he is just a guy, he copes differently... But 9 years later (this last January) the excuses stopped working. Yes looking for the right traits is helpful but I would like to see something that can visit the "toxic" topic on a deeper level... THANKS!!!

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Ginger Demchuk
Ginger Demchuk

Hi Matthew, I have be reading your emails that are directed to me by name when I am in bed from your service on love. Note I have not purchased the help, and that may be my downfall. Day to day, I feel this is one area that is hard for me in the new world of dating. I have been a widow for 2 years and I am lonely and I am not doing the right things on how to work at a relationship on my side. I am under 50 and still feel very young. I have taken some advice and the advice has made things move a wrong direction. I have sent texts that i have seen on your emails and have moved so wrong ,i'm sure the way i have sent and timing. I have a passion that as of today I have accomplished in my passion for work therefore I am a strong women and wow extremely happy and accomplished. I am confident in who I am but feel a terrible loss on someone that has crossed my path that based on the how i responded has moved on even deleting me off Facebook today. I have know this person for 20 years. I do feel safe with this person but I feel the pain but need to move on. I don't know how to date and continue in this as of today with men. I bounce back to ok to be alone to the next day of being open for love. Advise? a text on getting him back? I did the confused on us text and me taking time. Did not work out.

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maria d
maria d

I just watched the video of CA girl and London guy and was a very good advice for me because my boyfriend is in Belgium , Thank you

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Christine Khaoucha
Christine Khaoucha

this sucks

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Adventureinlife
Adventureinlife

And my search continues on to find the DE-film channel equivalent of the quality that Matthew Hussey brings except directed for men. I am still watching many of his videos that are not directly meant for women although even some of those videos can be helpful for a man.

Vor year
Frandiana Dorcin
Frandiana Dorcin

Matthew i have a question what if you text a boy and the same boy responses to 30 mins later do go right into the text or wait till 5 mins past and text back??

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Rainbow Jellybeans
Rainbow Jellybeans

Don't reply right away. Show you have a life.

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NRgie NRgie
NRgie NRgie

Hi, just in case you may run out of topics to handle on a video: I personally am a very confident woman in a long-term relationship (still enjoying and learning from your material!) but a lot of my single girl friends miss a lot of social and thereof dating opportunities because they feel awkward and uncomfortable after being catcalled on the way to a social event or something. Very often they turn, go home and wonder whether its been their fault. I feel bad for them and their missed chances of the day. It is not specifically dating, still it is about how to stay in control and confident as a woman. Exactly all the things you keep sharing thoughts on! So I am wondering whether you could give your thoughts on this? I have an actually very close friend in a bad quarter of our city so I do have plenty of opportunities to practice several strategies. Unfortunately, I do know that these are not the way to go. Basically they are all super aggressive, which is something that is not me but they work in the sense that the agressors usually are ashamed afterwards and sometimes even apologise. If you want its the easy way for me to go. I do have little hope that the few men I hit do leave women in peace in the future. A few samples of what I would not actually recommend to other women: "are you a muslim? behave like one!", "If you were 10 years younger and 20pounds lighter I may appreciated your thoughts on my looks but this way ...?! *headshaking*" or looking at one of the shyer friends in his group "are you proud of hanging out with him?" None of that actually meets my usual behaviour or ethical values, none of them is a safe way to go. I get away with it because I look like a classy women with a very confident posture and because all these incidents happen at daytime with people around. So usually they are too startled to proceed and sometimes even apologise. The only reason why I go that way is because I know that ignoring them would be what they anticipate and expect. Catcalling is a strong social issue for women and a severe threat on their confidence so I would appreciate any advice which is more active and in control than "look away, ignore and leave". That is advice that is given to women for centuries without any benefit to them.

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Hallie Mosteller
Hallie Mosteller

How do you know if a guy is truly busy or just making excuses? So I decided to give this guy I am interested in some tickets to a concert I would be performing in the next weekend and he gladly took them. A day before the concert I decided to invite him to a dinner that a few friends and I were doing after the concert but he never texted back about it. The next day, about an hour before the concert, he told me he couldn't come because he was asked to take care of someone that night. What do you think, is this just an excuse?

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diamondgirl
diamondgirl

Please do a video on when your boyfriend says things about other women being hot, but does not compliment you? Thank you!

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Doris Tüchler
Doris Tüchler

Well, my husband and I are married for 30 years this may. Still married, but we have a lot of problems. In my opinion most of them are about what he learned how to behave as a man and how I should bnehave löike a Woman loving him and vice versa: When he would really love me, he would.../ Well, you SAY you love me, but you did this, or that... So, I thank Mr. Hussey for helping to find a way out of this mess. And he is right, the behaviour at the first dates is the very best, it`s getting worse. And then financial problems, the kids, the grandparent and of course the everyday routines are helping to do the rest. Do it all better than we did!

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Amanda Ramos
Amanda Ramos

Hi Mathew, So, you're actually really kind of amazing. I don't necessarily agree with all your points but there are some bang on points that I've been leaning towards but this is a reassuring thing. Sorry I'm purposely being ambigous. Much love

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Kendra Karwan
Kendra Karwan

Matthew, my name is Kendra, and I am really desperate for help!!!. So my boyfriend that I have been dating for almost 2 years now broke up with me out of the blue. I didn't expect it coming, our whole relationship was perfect and I was happier than ever with him and he seemed the same, that's why this whole thing confuses me so much. All he said was that he was thinking about it a lot for a few weeks and that he felt that it was time do it. He didn't give much more explanation. But one thing that I noticed was that right before he actually said he was breaking up with me I asked if he still loved me, he first said I don't know, then he said no. We talked for a while after that and as we were saying goodbye, I told him that I really did love him, and he said that he loved me too. So I asked him, "Do you really, truly, actually love me?" and he said yes. I don't know what that means, I just was to know if you think it's possible that he still actually loves me or that he could let me have another chance with him because physically I am unable to give him up. We haven't talked since the breakup and I am afraid to because I do want to try to get him back, but I am afraid of being too attached. I am trying to keep my distance as hard as it is, but overall, I don't know what to do. I truly do love him with everything that I could give him, and I want to fight for him. I really do need some advice because I am afraid to loose him for good. Thank you for your help!

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Estela Moafon
Estela Moafon

i have a problem of jealousy in my relationship and i really need help

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